We women, unfortunately, are not lucky as men reaching the orgasms easily and frequently as we want.
What Is Orgasm?
Many women have never experienced an orgasm in their entire life. Research has shown that almost two-thirds of women have concerns about their sexual relationship.
YOU ARE NOT ALONE! DON’T WORRY!
You may not even know what the f*ck this orgasm?
Orgasms are intense feelings of release during sexual stimulation. You feel that you have reached to the point where you experience the pick pleasure and intense relaxation afterwards.
Despite the reasons, I want to help you to have the best orgasms ever. Of course, we need to practice and be patient in a shiny way of orgasm.
1. First, be aware that you are not alone.
Please let me remind you this again and again. ‘you are not alone’. Many of us suffer from this. Don’t feel alone, wrong or different. It is a common issue. Also, it is a fact that you should be psychologically ready to be able to enjoy sex. You should be feeling secure and relax.
2. Expand your knowledge.
Discover the beautiful system you have. It is the centre of life. We have a piece of God’s soul because we can create a human being from a single sperm and ovule. Be aware that your body is so special and valuable.
There are two pleasure parts in your system that gives you pleasure if you apply appropriate pressure and touch nicely. The first pleasure point is Clitoris. Keep in mind that the left and right part of it may give you more pleasure. Try and find your side :)
One of the other important topics is the shape of the vagina. We may not have enough information to compare with others. So, this may lead to a misconception that yours’s is weird and out of ‘the normal’. Actually, it is very usual to have a different shape. One side may be longer than the other or yours can have a darker colour etc.
3. Hands-on alone.
Males generally don’t have the orgasm problem (except rapid climax). It is because they have been practising since the day they were capable of enjoying their penis.
On the other side, most of the regions on earth, women don’t feel as free as men because of cultural and religious reasons. With a male‐dominant culture, women have difficulties expressing their own feelings, erotic and non‐erotic sexuality.
But, It is ok to touch your body, discover your own feeling and sexuality. Masturbation is the best way to practice and find out what you like, which part of your vagina is more sensitive. Girls do masturbate as well!
4. You are ready to share what you like, how you feel, what you expect.
Generally, sex between a man and a woman ends with the man finishing and the woman, more often than not, laying there wondering: “did I?” or worse, having faked it. It is an intimate activity which everyone involves in!
Your partner may or may not have enough information about the female body, specifically your body. They can’t read your minds girls :) You should be sharing your feelings and preferences. If you prefer longer foreplay, please talk about it. Or you may prefer a calm, lovely night, slower movements. Please stop your partner and make sure that you both enjoy! Describe which part of your body gives you more, please. I am sure they will be feeling much better if they can give more pleasure.
5. Keep practising and don’t feel shame enjoying your own body.
Your body learns to reach orgasm and remembers this every time when you have the right stimulation. When you give long breaks to this amazing experience, it may be harder for your body to remember. So, don’t be shy and ashamed! Give it a try (especially during your ovulation period) even if you are alone. Keep enjoying the most beautiful feeling that we are privileged to experience.
